Bernice
I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work.
As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well.
I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we do spend together even better.I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble .
I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is not working.I do not expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning.
I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that.
I consider myself to be a honest and truthful person and expect the same in return, I'm not wealthy and don't want to take advantage of someone and i don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me play me or to take advantage of me too.
Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over.
I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me, or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses.
Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning.
